Bad Boys vs. Nice Guys: Which Do Women Prefer?

If you ask a woman what she prefers. Most women will say they’re looking for a nice guy. Yet you will most often see these same women in the arms of bad-boys. What gives? Are women lying? Not really, no.

It has to do with the question. You see, often time women answer questions from the perspective of a long-term mate. So if you ask her what kind of a guy she likes, she will go on describing a guy she’d like to get married to.

She is not describing whom she’ll have a one-night stand with tonight. In fact, the guy she hooks up with tonight can be nothing like the guy she described as being her ideal.

Reason Number Two

A difference in what women mean when they say “a nice guy” and what self-described nice guys are. When women say they’d like to meet a nice guy, its nothing like the nice-guys who call themselves nice guys.

What a woman means by “I’d like to meet a nice guy” is “I’d like to meet a hot, attractive manly man, who also does nice things for me occasionally”. She does not mean “I’d like to meet a spineless wuss who doesn’t have character and is always running around trying to please me and get me to like him by doing me favors and kissing my butt”.

Yes that’s what most nice guys do. They think they’re being nice guys by kissing up to women and having no personality or character of their own. And that’s just sad if you ask me…

Reason Number Three

There is also some dishonesty on the part of women too. The part women are dishonest with themselves about is indifference. A lot of women won’t admit it to themselves, but they’re more sexually attracted if a guy is more unavailable or harder to attain.

Bad boys only care about their own needs, and don’t care what a woman thinks. They’re indifferent to what she thinks or getting her approval. This is what makes them hot. Women are biologically hard-wired to be attracted to a bit of arrogance, as this means the man is of high-status.

Now, the ideal for you is not to become a bad boy. But get best of both world. Become a little selfish and confident. Make it hard for her to get a hold of you, be busy, have a life, have other interests… But when you are WITH her, then you are THE nicest guy you can be.

Do you get this? You give her the badboy and the nice guy in one package. And that to a woman is the ideal man.