Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: No, I am not suffering from teh nice guy syndrome, if there is such a thing but I just feel that girls/women deserve more, even if they do not feel the same way now, trust me later on when they get a little older, they will look back and feel totally different unless…. Forget, No I ma not a female but I do have 3 sisters 3 older and one younger, so I have been abvle to pick up on alot of the things the guys have used to get the two older ones but has any though like this, (no it is not a new way of thinking, it has been stataed before), if a girl would be your friend with benefits, then how many other guys could he be doing things with? Or for those who think that is cool, then what if she is messing with someone who does not know but has something that he got from another friend with benefits?
Answer: Dude, I have no idea what your question is? Is this a question, or is this a fumbled up rant? Lol, I have NO idea what you’re asking. Are you asking why girls don’t go for nice guys? Or are you stating how they “wise up” as they get older and do go for the nice guys.
I’ll just comment on that last one. Women do not wise up as they get older, the settle. They no longer can get the jock, so they settle for nice-guys they can boss around.
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Friends with benefits are bad news as far as I see it, for the reasons you mentioned and a few others. For me lovemaking is the ultimate symbol of love and caring that you can show a person and not just something fun to do on a Friday night. There are just too many risks involved, risks that could change your life forever. The safest bet is to only go to bed with someone you truly care about and will have no regrets should something happen.
That’s why casual sex is risky, both physically & emotionally. FWB deals can end nasty because feelings can develop and get hurt when the reality that the other person doesn’t feel the same way. These relationships don’t have any commitment, so there’s no need for honesty.
No girl should settle for a friend with benefits unless she just wants the benefits to. Men can be jerks but so can the women.
I am a women and I have a heard of a LOT of sleazy tricks the girls pull to.
friend with beanies is stupid comet and enjoy
Continue to treat the women the way that you are treating them, with respect and like a lady. You know how to treat a woman because you are in a family full of women. There is nothing wrong with the “Nice Guy” syndrome.
Too confusing I am not sure what you are asking
I think there is such a thing, as nice guy syndrome. As for the friends with benefits…… Alot of people do it, and it is possible for there to be 2 or 3 of these type of friends at any given time.
…no such thing as nice guy syndrome… that is some made up crap to make HS and college guys who can’t get dates buy worthless books about girls and techniques to get some poon…
Fell into a life without women when I was just so bad at it. No, I did not feel that anyone
owed me anything nor that I was “entitled” to a woman’s attention. I just came to
understand that I would never survive in a life full of these horrible games. Some people must
enjoy it, or it would never last.