Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
NICE GUYS…????????? Okay.
So guys – you’re always sweet and nice to pretty much all girls…like go out of your way nice…and let’s say pretty good looking as well. So how would a girl you are interested in as more than a friend know you aren’t just another girl you’re being overly nice to?? PLEASE SHARE.
(The guy I’m interested in is really nice to everyone so it’s hard to tell if he likes me more than just a friend. We’ve been friends for 2 years, but this whole hanging around me/sitting by me/telling me how amazing I am has just started this semester (first semester he’s not had his long-term girlfriend)).
My answer:
Well, if he has been telling you how amazing you are just recently, it may be an indication. It is most probable that he does like you more than a friend. But, you really have to make sure of this.
You can test him if he likes you more than a friend. I remember when I was in the same situation as your friend. I didn’t know she liked me. So, one day when we were out as friends, we started talking about kissing. We didn’t even talk that much about it, but it was obviously enough for what she was about to do.
She told me “Hey, I wonder how you kiss? Let’s kiss for a moment so I can find out”. Since she was being so playful and cool about it, we kissed for a short time and soon after that I really got the picture that she didn’t just do that for short term fun.
Try anything with him that goes beyond your everyday friendly interactions.
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you can always just ask him thats kinda hard though
Oh geez. That’s one of the hardest because everyone always thinks the nice guy is always flirting with that one girl. If he is interested in you, then you’ll notice something much different. He’ll most likely try to get your attention for every joke, make eye connection, and try to move you away from the group to talk to you privately.
I do not believe she would know. I bet you he is looking for the right girl
Being the quintessential nice guy, I think I can answer your question. Of course I am an older adult so I have had more experience in the dating game than guys in your age range.
I am nice to all of the ladies. Being that I was raised around a bunch of women, I was taught at an early age how to be nice and respectful to the ladies. I learn that as a man you treat a woman a little more differently than you would treat another guy. That being said, I learned that there is a difference between being nice to woman and being romantic to a woman.
If I am interested in a woman that way, I flirt with her non-stop. I am constantly looking her in the eyes and saying romantic things. I also complement her on the the way she looks. I ask her out if I am feeling the vibe.